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Is it too early for an Irish coffee?


The challenges of being parents to 3 gorgeous boys with autism.

A difficult Saturday morning preceded by a week of full on challenges with our 3 children.  Half term was the week before.  Our other 2 children had come home from school for their half term.  My wife is amazing as she has had to deal with the boys all week without respite.  I however have been at work able to escape.  By 9am on  a Saturday morning I am already craving alcohol.  Hence the need for an Irish coffee.

 During the first Monday of half term I had already found Gin. I mean I'd heard of it but suddenly took more of an interest in it.  I went to my local supermarket and contemplated what I needed to buy to keep my wife and I both sane.  That was four bottles of beer, ready made cans of gin mixed with a plethora of different tonics. Feeling sophisticated I also picked up some ready mixed Pims and lemonade. A friend suggested that I should have cleared the entire gin shelf and definitely purchase more beer.  Sadly I didn't heed her advice and here I was thinking of Irish coffee.  For those of you who don't know an Irish coffee contains whiskey, cream and sometime sugar I think. To be honest when I tried to make one in the past it ended in disaster.  I thought it tasted ok but other people didn't think so.

The best Irish coffee I ever tasted was at a bar in Maplewood, New Jersey.  The thought of Irish coffee just reminds me of the place where my best friend lives.  I love that town.

I hope whoever you are and wherever you are, you are ok.

Well take care and enjoy that coffee.

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