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On the cusp of greatness/ finding a brightside

I am on the cusp of greatness.  Not sure what that means or how I know that but I've got a good feeling. So I'm running with it.  

Feel tired but can't sleep.

My wife talked about our wedding vows today:
For richer for poorer - we have always been poor. Still awaiting the richer bit.

In sickness and in health -  lots of sickness and trouble but not the health part. 

Based on the above we think we're due some of the flip side. 

Well I've gone and done it, applied to be a freelance writer. My first step on the rung to becoming a writer.  I may not get it but I must keep going as there is so much uncertainty right now. My job is fixed contract that could end anytime.  Hey it sounds more like a mobile phone sim only deal than a job. A job that helps to provide for your family, keep a roof over your heads and help give you some pride in yourself.

Just reflecting this year we have trodden an extremely hard road but I have met some amazing people because of it. We will continue the fight.

My message today is don't suffer in silence, please talk to someone if you are struggling. I would hate for anyone to end their lives because they feel rubbish and lonely.

I WANT YOU IN THIS WORLD.  I LOVE YOU. I'm here for you.  Grab a drink and let's talk. Covid-19 and lockdowns will never take that love away. 

Darren

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